Breaking free from narcissistic abuse requires not just mental reframing but also physical grounding. By pairing these powerful mantras with intentional breathing exercises, you can reinforce your healing process and regulate your nervous system.
Mantra & Breathwork Practice
Each mantra below is paired with a specific breathing technique to enhance its impact. Practice these daily in a quiet space, allowing yourself to fully absorb their healing energy.
1. Letting Go of Responsibility
Mantra: “I am not responsible for the narcissist’s actions or behaviour. I am only responsible for my own healing and well-being.”
Breathwork: 4-7-8 Breathing (Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, exhale for 8 seconds)
Purpose: Releases anxiety and resets your nervous system.
2. Affirming Self-Worth
Mantra: “I am worthy of love, respect, and healthy relationships. I deserve to be treated with kindness, empathy, and understanding.”
Breathwork: Heart-Centered Breathing (Inhale deeply while imagining love entering your heart, exhale releasing self-doubt)
Purpose: Cultivates self-love and confidence.
3. Reclaiming Identity
Mantra: “I am not defined by the narcissist’s perception of me. I am my own unique, authentic self, and I will honour and embrace my true identity.”
Breathwork: Box Breathing (Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4)
Purpose: Grounds you in your true self.
4. Setting Boundaries
Mantra: “I will set healthy boundaries to protect myself from further harm. I have the right to say ‘no’ and prioritize my own well-being.”
Breathwork: Lion’s Breath (Inhale deeply through your nose, exhale strongly through your mouth with a ‘ha’ sound)
Purpose: Releases tension and empowers assertiveness.
5. Releasing the Need for Validation
Mantra: “I release the need for approval and validation from the narcissist. I am enough just as I am, and I don’t need their validation to feel worthy.”
Breathwork: Alternate Nostril Breathing (Close right nostril, inhale through left; switch nostrils and exhale)
Purpose: Balances emotions and promotes inner peace.
6. Taking Back Control
Mantra: “I will not allow the narcissist to control or manipulate me any longer. I am in charge of my own life and choices.”
Breathwork: Power Breathing (Inhale deeply through nose, exhale forcefully through mouth)
Purpose: Builds strength and personal empowerment.
7. Practicing Self-Care
Mantra: “I will practice self-care and self-compassion. I deserve to prioritize my own physical, emotional, and mental well-being.”
Breathwork: Ocean Breath (Ujjayi) (Inhale and exhale through nose with slight throat constriction)
Purpose: Soothes and calms the mind.
8. Releasing Self-Blame
Mantra: “I will not blame myself for the narcissist’s behaviour. I did not cause it, and I cannot change it. I will focus on my own healing and growth.”
Breathwork: Sighing Breath (Deep inhale through nose, loud sigh on exhale)
Purpose: Releases stored guilt and tension.
9. Surrounding Yourself with Support
Mantra: “I will surround myself with supportive and healthy relationships. I deserve to be surrounded by people who lift me up and support my healing journey.”
Breathwork: Gratitude Breathing (Inhale gratitude, exhale negativity)
Purpose: Encourages connection and openness.
10. Embracing Resilience
Mantra: “I am resilient and capable of healing from the wounds of narcissistic abuse. I will take each step at my own pace and celebrate my progress.”
Breathwork: Deep Belly Breathing (Breathe deeply into the diaphragm, expanding belly)
Purpose: Strengthens inner resilience and calm.
Final Reflection:
Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time and conscious effort. Be patient with yourself, seek supportive relationships, and make self-care a priority. Combining these mantras with breathwork creates a powerful tool for reclaiming your strength, inner peace, and self-worth. You are not alone, and you deserve a life free from toxicity and full of love and self-empowerment.